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No matter what (2)

Recently I shared that throughout my sobriety I have wondered if a specific event could entice me to drink or use. Those events were physical harm to my daughter and for my mother to pass away. How could I endure such pain generated by such events? Well needless to say my mother passed away approximately

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Easy Does It

What exactly does this slogan mean? However, we could better start our discussion with what it doesn’t mean. It could be a paraphrase of “do not put off until tomorrow what you can do today.” Addicts are known for procrastination when it comes to performing common tasks or carrying out responsibilities. It has been said

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Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD’S)

There is another scourge we alcoholic/addicts are exposed to and that is sexually transmitted diseases. Due our poor impulse control and loss of inhibitions when drinking or using we place ourselves In positions which may expose us to these diseases. In the past the main diseases we were exposed to were syphilis and gonorrhea. Time

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Effect of Relapse on Others

When we speak about relapse, we tend to speak in terms of ourselves. This seems to be the natural thought process that occurs. But what about when we think of others relapsing? Or actually get news that a friend or loved one has gone out and relapsed? I don’t think we realize the full impact

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Loss

About 8 days ago I lost my mother to a painful, prolonged illness. She spent most of her time in her home, until she was hospitalized and then had to go to rehab for ambulatory issues. It was just too painful for her to go out. She had always been a woman on the go

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Another Promise

“We will comprehend the word serenity and we will know peace” (Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous, pages 83-84).  Serenity is defined as being in a state of calm, peacefulness and untroubled.  Peace can be defined as absence of conflict and freedom from disturbance.  Sounds too good to be true?  We think not.  After coming into

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Newly Sober

When I was newly sober, I noticed that I smelled really strange.  I took shower after shower trying to rid myself of this smell.  It wasn’t a bad smell or a good smell.  It was just a smell.  I found out that it was my body leaching out all the chemicals which I had put

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Covet

The Big, Big Book states that “we shall not covet our neighbor’s wife or goods.”  Alcoholic addicts are notorious for coveting what is not rightly ours.  We shy away from work as a means to acquire goods and services.  We view ourselves as better looking than our neighbor, so we deserve his wife, or so

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Four Horsemen

The terrible Four Horsemen are found on page 151 of the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous.  We will discuss each one separately in this BLOG. Terror Do you ever wake up wondering how you acted as you don’t remember because you were in a blackout?  You can’t remember what you said or did.  Maybe you

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Relapse

When we speak about relapse, we tend to speak in terms of ourselves.  This seems to be the natural thought process that occurs.  But what about when we think of others relapsing?  Or actually get news that a friend or loved one has gone out and relapsed?  I don’t think we realize the full impact

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